We all have days when we would rather be in any other country than the one we are currently living. In Vietnam we used to call those days “TIV”– this is Vietnam. So much would regularly go wrong in Vietnam that you had to laugh about the difficulties…or you would spend your life in tears. What is good to remember when you’re having “one of those days” is that back in your home country they also happen (maybe just not as often or be quite so noticeable). Luckily the good days generally outweigh the bad, and the longer you are in your adopted country the more good, great and wonderful days you have.
On Saturday, we had one of those fantastic days that make you really appreciate being an expat. One of my friends had organized a junk as she had relatives visiting from the Uk. My husband had his brother visiting from the UK (but he is Australian) and another friend bought along her visitors. Out of a group of 13 of us there were 6 people that only knew one or two other people on the boat.
It was a magical day, the sky was blue (only a slight haze of pollution), the sun was out and the sea was calm. We moored over near Sai Kung and began to get to know each other. Within an hour, it was like we were old friends. What I really love about being an expat is the chance to meet people that you never would have if you hadn’t moved overseas. It’s an amazing opportunity to share travel stories, learn about another country, discover mutual interests and form new friendships. While we swam, danced (the Macarena came on…what choice did we have!), paddle boarded and ate we mixed like people that had known each other for years. Everyone agreed it was a very special day and we parted weary, but with big smiles and hugs all around.
Next time you are having “one of those days”, stop and reminisce about a special memory you have of a time in Hong Kong when you were surrounded by new friends and having a ball. Recall the sounds, the laughter and the feeling of happiness it gave you. Better still, call one of those friends and tell them about your day, I bet they are only too happy to meet for a coffee and lend a shoulder to cry on. You will probably find that before long what really frustrated you becomes part of the charm of Hong Kong and something you will miss when you leave this wonderful country.
Have a great week. x